dunchee You are asking for the sort of assistance an agony aunt who understands your own culture might be able to give. We can't really help. agony aunt 今天新學到的一個很有趣的說法。我那年代的話就相當於「張老師」，只是我不曉得現在年輕一輩的人是否知道「張老師」 / 「張老師信箱」。 Origin of ‘agony column’ and ‘agony aunt’
